Quotes

"You can't build a relationship on promises, you build it with love, determination, and trust."

"Over-thinking ruins you. Ruins the situation, twists things around, makes you worry and just makes everything much worse than it actually is"

"A hug means I need you, a kiss means I love you, and a call means I miss you."

"I’m not popular, but I have nice friends. I’m not rich but I have what I need. I may not be liked but I know I’m loved." 

" Stop getting attached to people so fast, because attachments lead to expectations and expectations lead to disappointments."

"Protect her, love her, kiss her, hold her, smile with her, laugh with her. But don't make her fall if you don't plan on catching her."

"Be the girl you want your daughter to be. Be the girl you want your son to date. Be classy, anything but trashy. ♥"

"Sometimes you need a bad relationship so that you can appreciate a good one."

"People always leave. Don't worry, you get used to it and most importantly, learn to deal with it."

"A relationship is like a couple holding hands. Although the hands are different & imperfect, they still fit together perfectly."

"People will forget what you said. People will forget what you did. But people will never forget how you made them feel."

"Life doesn't allow for you to go back and change things. All I can do is learn from the past & prepare for the future."

Love, 

The Dazzling Ladybie

Petua Hilangkan Batuk

► Ambil sedikit kerak nasi dan rendamkan dalam air suam. Apabila kerak nasi kembang, minum airnya. Amalkan setiap pagi.

► Rebus beberapa biji buah pisang masak. Setelah lembik campurkan santan secukupnya serta sedikit garam dan perasa vanila. Setelah 20 minit, makanlah makanan tadi dengan mencampurkan sedikit gula. Selain anda mendapat kenikmatan suara anda semakin pulih.

► Tumbuk segenggam daun pegaga, hingga lumat dan tapis untuk mendapatkan airnya yang pekat. Campurkan dengan gula dan embunkan selama satu malam. Minum dua kali seminggu.

► Campurkan dua sudu teh madu lebah (pastikan ianya asli) dengan air suam. Kacau sehingga sebati. Kemudian minum tiga kali sehari.

► Untuk batuk-batuk gatal terutama di kerongkong, ambil jus limau nipis. Kemudian campurkan dengan sedikit kicap dan madu lebah lalu diminum.

► Ambil 1/4 biji buah pala, 1/2 biji limau nipis dan secamca minyak kayu putih. Buah pala diparut, limau nipis diperah, ambil airnya sahaja. Parutan buah pala dan perahan limau dicampur dengan kulit kayu putih. Gosokkan ramuan tadi dengan lembut pada punggung dan dada anak. Lakukan tiga kali sehari hingga seminggu.

► Jika anda mengalami batuk yang berterusan, ambil lapan helai daun pudina (orang cina panggil bo ho) dan rebus dengan beberapa ketul gula batu selama lima minit. Minum airnya beberapa kali agar batuk anda tidak berterusan. Setiap rebusan mesti menggunakan lapan helai daun pudina.

► Bagi menghilangkan batuk berkahak yang berpanjangan, terutama pada kanak-kanak ambil gula melaka, pecahkan kecil-kecil dan berikan pada anak anda dan makan seperti gula- gula. Lakukan beberapa kali hingga sembuh.

► Bagi anda yang sering batuk-batuk, petua paling mudah untuk meredakannya dengan mengambil secamca besar madu lebah, lebih baik dicampur sedikit air tetapi jangan terlalu cair. Kemudian, campur sedikit perahan limau nipis. Sebaiknya, ia diminum setiap malam sebelum tidur.

► Rendamkan sedikit kerak nasi dalam air suam. Apabila telah kembang, minum airnya pada setiap pagi.

► Rebus beberapa biji pisang masak. Setelah lembik, campurkan santan secukupnya, sedikit garam dan perasa vanila. Kacau rata dan diminum airnya.

► Tumbuk segenggam daun pegaga hingga lumat dan tapis untuk mendapatkan airnya yang pekat. Campurkan dengan gula dan embunkan selama satu malam. Air itu hendaklah diminum dua kali dalam seminggu.

► Campurkan dua sudu teh madu lebah asli dengan air suam. Kacau sehingga sebati dan minum air tersebut tiga kali sehari.

► Ambil dua sudu nasi panas yang baru masak. Masukkan nasi itu ke dalam cawan dan campurkan sedikit air. Embunkan nasi tersebut selama semalaman dan minum airnya pada esok paginya.

► Ambil sebiji limau sunkist dan buatkan lubang berbentuk pangkah di bahagian tengahnya. Masukkan gula batu di lubang tersebut. Letakkan limau tersebut di dalam periuk di tengah-tengah nasi yang telah kering dan tutup periuk tersebut. Setelah nasi itu masak, ambil buah limau tadi dan makan sambil didahului dengan selawat. Ulang setiap kali memasak nasi sehingga sembuh. Selain melegakan batuk, nasi akan berbau harum.

► Perah sebiji limau nipis dan campurkan dengan sedikit madu. Minum campuran ini setiap pagi sebelum sarapan. Amalkan sehingga batuk hilang.

Love, 

The Dazzling Ladybie

Seorang Demi Seorang

maaf la i dah lama x update sangat blog ni..
bukan ap.. kekangan masa..
lagi pula laptop sendiri menggiler xmo on..
so.. nak pakai laptop pusaka ni. kne take turn pula..
so... berjeda lama la blog ni kan..

ok.. stop about that ~!!
back to the story..
Tahun ni diibaratkan tahun gelap bagi i..
mana taknye.. tahun ni juga i kehilangan daddy tercinta..
selepas itu... satu demi satu kehilangan yang i hadapi..

Tok Chik Kepol
Kak Midah 
Tok Chik Chaman

macam mana laaaa agaknya suasana raya tahun ni..

Al-Fatihah...

Semoga roh mereka ditempatkan bersama orang yang dikasihi Allah.

Amin...
Amin ..
Amin Ya Rabb

Love, 

The Dazzling Ladybie

Ramadhan (Part 2)

R A M A D H A N

The Rewards of Fasting

Fasting is one of the most sincere worshipping of God and hence its rewards are numerous. The following are some of the narrations about the abundant rewards of fasting.

• The reward of fasting is numerous: The Almighty Allah states:

“And seek help in patience and the Prayers.” [2:45]

Patience in the above Ayah is interpreted to fasting, as fasting requires patience. A faster is therefore patient. The Almighty Allah with reference to the reward of the patient states:

“Only those who are patient shall receive their reward in full without reckoning.” [39:10]

• Allah is the reward of fasting: It is narrated from the Prophet of Islam (S):“The Almighty Allah says:

‘For every good deed there are ten to seven hundred times rewards, save fasting. For fasting is for Me and I am the reward of it.’” 8

Surely, what else would a faster wish for after having Allah as his reward and what would he have should he be deprived of the Presence of Allah. It is to this effect that the Messenger of Allah (S) reported to have said: “Only if you know what you may gain in the month of Ramadhan you would have remembered God much thankfully.”9

• Seven compulsory rewards of fasting: It is narrated from the Prophet of Islam (S): “No believer fasts the month of Ramadhan for the sake of Allah but the Almighty Allah will definitely grant him seven rewards: 1) It will melt the Haraam from his body, 2) It will bring him close to the Mercy of Allah, 3) It will rectify the mistake10 of his father; Adam, 4) Allah will ease for him the stupor of death, 5) He will secure him from the thirst and the hunger of the Day of Judgment, 6)Allah will grant him liberation from Hell fire, and 7)Allah will feed him from the pure things of Paradise.”11

• Worshipping Allah even when asleep: As mentioned earlier fasting is the only type of worshipping Allah that is in no conflict with our day to day transactions. It is narrated from the Prophet of Islam (S): “A faster is in worshipping God even if he is asleep in his bed as long as he does not back-bite any Muslim.”12

• Special Entrance for the fasters: It is narrated from the Prophet of Islam (S): “There is a special entrance to Paradise called ‘al-Rayyan’ (satisfaction) none will enter through that gate save the fasters.” 13

• Angels pray for the faster: Angels are infallible and their prayers are granted, especially if they are commanded by Allah to pray. It is narrated from Imam Al-Baqir (a.s): “Surely, the Almighty Allah has appointed a group of angels for the fasters. They seek Allah’s forgiveness for them in every day of Ramadhan to the end of it. They cry to the fasters every evening at the time the fasters break their fast: Glad tidings for you, O servants of Allah! Indeed you hungered for a little while but you will be satisfied for long. You are blessed and the blessing is in you. Until when it is the last night of the month of Ramadhan, they cry out: Glad tidings for you O servants of Allah. Indeed the Almighty Allah forgave your previous sins and accepted your repentance. Thus, watch how you will act in your new file.”14

• Ten consecutive years of fasting grants Paradise: Muhammad Ibn al-Hasan al-Karkhi said: “I heard Imam Hasan (a.s) saying to a man in his house: “O Aba Haroun! Whoever fasts ten consecutive months of Ramadhan will enter Paradise .”

Credit : https://www.al-islam.org/fasting-and-ramadhan-sheikh-mansour-leghaei/ramadhan-awareness

Love, 

The Dazzling Ladybie

Ramadhan

R A M A D H A N

Ramadhan is the ninth month of the Islamic calendar. It is the month during which Muslims observe fasting from morning twilight (Fajr Prayer) to the evening twilight (Maghreb Prayer). The term Ramadhan is literally driven from al-Ramd which means ‘burning heat of the sun’. It is believed that this name is given to the fasting month due to the thirst experienced during fasting.

Some of the unique characteristics of fasting.

• The longest worshipping: Fasting is the longest worshipping of God. Daily Prayers will not take more than one hour every day at most. Pilgrimage to Hajj will not take more than a few weeks in a life time. The worshipping of fasting is about 12 to 16 hours (depending on the season and your geographical location) and lasts for a whole month every year. In other words, a faster typically spends more than 400 hours within one month for worshipping Allah! Isn’t this amazing?!

• Does not interrupt your daily life: Fasting unlike other types of worshipping does not interrupt our daily transactions. One cannot normally offer his/her daily prayers whilst working. You ought to take a break from your work, perform your Wudhu, find a suitable place and offer your Salat. Pilgrimage to Hajj is even more so interrupting your daily life. Fasting exceptionally is the only type of worshipping that can be observed whilst one is doing his normal daily work. It does not interrupt your worldly life at all. Amazingly a faster is still in the state of worshipping Allah even if he/she is asleep. Fasting is only in conflict with sinning.

• Worshipping God without any action: All other types of worshipping consist of some actions. Take the example of daily Prayers. It is the combination of some recitation of the Qur’an, some Thikr in different postures. The same applies to Hajj, Zakat etc. Fasting is the only of worshipping of Allah that amazingly consists of some non-doings! Fasting is avoidance of drinking, eating etc. a faster does not require doing anything. It is enough no to do anything! This is the reason why it is in no conflict with our daily lives.

• The most sincere worshipping: Worshipping God is like a perfume kept in its container. Once the lid is opened the fragrance flies and only its tasteless liquid remains. The best worshipping is the most secret of all. Once its seal is broken it may be spoiled by showing off. All other types of worshipping are prone to show off. Salat, which is meant to be offered in a group for its public nature is prone to showing off and hence can be easily void. Pilgrimage to hajj is even more prone to showing off. Fasting, however, is the only worshipping of Allah that none other than God would really know if you are fasting. Fasting is an inner worshipping and hence it can be the most sincere worshipping.

• The only worshipping act that there is a penalty (expiation) if missed deliberately. If any Muslim misses his daily Prayers even deliberately, although he has committed a mortal sin, he only has to make up the lapsed Prayers, there is no penalty involved in it. The same applies if one misses his pilgrimage to Hajj. Fasting is the only worshipping act that if is it deliberately missed in addition to making it up, there is a hefty penalty for it. Abdullah Ibn Sanan in an authentic Hadith narrated from Imam As-Sadiq (a.s) about the expiation against someone who has deliberately-and without any religious justification- broken one day of fasting saying: " He must free a salve or fast two months or feed sixty poor people, but if he was unable to do so, he must give charity as much as he can ." This penalty becomes even heftier if the person has broken his fast with something Haraam such as drinking alcohol or masturbation.

Love, 

The Dazzling Ladybie