Turn Ons and Turn Offs

DAY 20 - 5 TURN ONS AND 5 TURN OFFS

TURN ONS

• ATTENTIVENESS  - We really want to know that you are listening, that you're paying attention and that you're actually into us for more than just what you can get out of us.
• ACTIVE LISTENING
• DEEP CONNECTION -  A girl likes to know the guy that she is with inside and out. She likes to know his thoughts, feelings and where the #relationship is going.
• GOOD KISSING - A girl likes to make out and typically, if you are getting down to business, it is because of making out.
• PATIENCE - We want a man who won't complain if we want to wait to get physical. We want a man who won't groan if we take too long applying make-up in the bathroom. The more patience you have, the happier we'll be with you.

TURN OFFS

• Awkwardness  - Female-dominated professions are often ones where social skills are especially important. As such, a man with good social intelligence is very attractive to women, whereas an awkward man can make them run screaming in the other direction. If you’re the guy who sometimes says the wrong thing or brings conversation to a halt, then it might be time for less TV and movies and more happy hours and parties.
• Horniness Being horny is where you’re looking for someone to have sex with, and talk to females who might be able to help with that. Even if that’s what you’re actually doing, women you talk to should never feel that that’s your game plan.
• Insecurity Be confident that she likes you. Be confident that everyone likes you. Or that, if they don’t, that that’s their problem. A self-assured man is very attractive to women.
• Hygiene It’s important for two reasons. First, women just tend to care more about things being clean (and have higher standards for what is considered “clean”) than most men. Second—and this might be more important—women are always looking for clues about what kind of person you are. To you, a mustard stain might simply be a mustard stain. To her, it might be a sign that you don’t pay attention to detail, you don’t respect yourself, you don’t have social skills, or worse. Set her mind at ease and make sure both you and your house are in good, clean order.

Love, 

The Dazzling Ladybie